King Charles III and the Queen Consort, Camilla, released their first Christmas card since Charles became king. The message reads: Wishing you a very Happy Christmas and New Year.
Upon seeing this, my husband noted that in Canada we tend to wish people a Merry Christmas, whereas residents of the UK wish people a happy one.
Having mulled it over, in future I will wish people a Happy Christmas, because that is my truer wish. A person can be merry without being happy at all.
Merriment is surface stuff. To be merry, a person needs only to smile, laugh, and overindulge in shortbread and eggnog.
Happiness runs deeper than that. A happy person doesn’t need to be merry at all. Happiness is sitting at peace in the moment and being grateful for what is. The merriment, the gifts, the gingerbread, and the spiked hot chocolate are mere bonuses.
No matter what or how you celebrate, may you sit at peace in the moment, grateful for what is.
Happy Christmas.
Somerton Smith 
I like the distinction you’re making between “merry” and “happy”, and I agree, it’s a different emotion. Just like “joyous” and “glad” are different. Words have power we all too often dismiss. I’m GLAD you brought it up, and HAPPY holiday season to you (did I capture what would work for folks on both sides of the ocean? 🙃)! ⛄️
I think happiness works everywhere. Happy holidays!
🎄 Happy Christmas to you, Arlene. Merriment can be exhausting…whereas happiness is a much calmer state. I know which one I’m going for this holiday ☺️
Oh yes, me too. I like some merriment, but I crave the happy. Enjoy your peaceful happiness.
My sentiments exactly, Arlene! Happy Christmas and Joyous 2023!
Joy is also an excellent wish. A Happy and Joyous Christmas to you.
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Just seeing your post made me happy; and I agree with you that “Happy Christmas” is a better wish for everyone. I will start using that expression from now on. Thanks
Oh, how wonderful to find your comment – several days late, I’m sorry to say. I have been immersed in staying happy amongst the merry. I hope you and your wonderful family had a happy Christmas.
I agree, the British tradition is much better. Many people feel pressured to be “merry” this time of year, when they might just feel content to stay home and be quiet. Happy Holidays!
Thank you, Joni. I have been away from my computer for a few days of peaceful contemplation. That is a happy thing, as is returning to find your comment. I hope you enjoyed a happy Christmas.
Thanks Arlene….yes it was happy but quieter than in years past, but that’s okay too.
I have been converted – now its Happy Christmas. I always like whenever I read your blog, it is something that I need to ponder and really think about. Thank you.
Thank you so much, Shirley. You touch my heart as always.
Merry Christmas 🎄